That others seem to think they know what I feel, think and need. The arrogance of some people amuses me, others assume to know you so well, that they can determine what is best for you, what you need, and most of all what you should want and go for.
First of all “don’t assume” second, “don’t take anything personally”. So with that in mind, how could someone else know what you need or want? It is incredibly narcissistic for anyone to think they could have that power. Most of us, don’t even know what we ourselves want or need. So how could anyone else??? Are they mind readers?
It goes back to live and let live. What others do or say has nothing to do with You!