I just realized, that I have been/felt I was the victim in all the drama, hurt and exploitation in my life. It took a friend to tell me, that I was finally being accountable for my feelings and actions, and not being a victim.. “What I spoke of myself as a victim?” I had no idea. When we are entrenched in our own feelings, we have no idea what others see. If we are willing to take a role, that role keeps on being handed to us. If we’re givers, people will keep on expecting you to give, if you are a taker, people will expect you to take, and on and on.
I am NOT a victim, I am a survivor! All my experiences were valuable in teaching and showing me, what I needed to learn.
Thankful, Grateful and Blessed!