I have been noticing, that the happier I am, and the more self love I develop, the more positive attention I get from the outside world, I assume they can feel my positive energy and the love I feel within, attracting them to me.
So, I have been making more of a consiouns effort to think positively, and looked around enjoy my surroundings and smile at people passing by. Most of us are attracted to people who exude positivity and light. So in short what and how you feel about yourself is what others see and feel. It is called being present and in the moment, try it, see and feel it for yourself.
Thankful, Grateful and Blessed!