I am happy to notice the changes in myself. It is happening… finally… I was with a “friend” (who is verbally abusive) when she said “what is wrong with you!” without even thinking I responded, “nothing is wrong with me, and that is abusive” I stud up to her bullying and she stopped in her tracks, with a look on her face that was priceless, probably from shock.
Saying “No” when I want and need to say “No” instead of “yes” to placate others. Taking my time to do as I please and what feels right for me, is a huge change and blessing.
I think this might be a sign of loving myself!
Thankful, Grateful & Blessed!