I have found that I have made way too many excuses and given too many passes for people to hurt, lie and betray me.
I have found that when I have done this, in the end the relationships undoubtedly end and usually for the same for the same reason I had given the first pass for. So basically if I could learn the lessons I am supposed to, the first time around, I would have saved myself a lot of time and heartbreak. Note to self, learn and let go!
Thankful, Grateful & Blessed!