Expressing our feelings is important, but if we continue to express doom and gloom, we will keep recycling these feelings. We should give voice to them, cleanse and clear our system of them.
As much as I’ve tried, we can’t change the past, I know I can’t. But I can and have changed the way I feel about it. There is a lot to be said about perspective.
I have gone back to ex lovers, ex boyfriends, ex husbands so many times, and I can tell you from experience, if it didn’t work out the first time around, the likeliness of it working the second, third or more times around is not high.
Lesson learned, STOP the recycling when it comes to relationships. Would you go to the landfill or dumpster to find your future? I am going to assume the answer is NO!