INFJs do quite well in civilized disagreements or debates, but you do not like to feel like you’re inciting conflict. Ever. You’re so careful not to incite conflict, in fact, that you might just brush a lot of your concerns under the rug that you shouldn’t. You’re prone to questioning whether or not you’ve misinterpreted something, because you want to believe the best of people. You typically only argue or disagree when someone’s story doesn’t add up or you feel you’ve been treated unjustly. If your concerns are heard out, you’re all for coming up with a good solution together, or trying to understand what happened. But you often back down if someone’s argument is more emphatic than yours. Stand your ground. Your intuition on what’s worth speaking up about is usually dead on!
Very interesting and true!